What is a dildo?
A dildo is a sex toy designed for internal stimulation, used alone or with a partner. Unlike vibrators, it does not necessarily have a vibrating function. They come in various shapes, sizes, and materials to suit all needs and preferences.
Materials: which one to choose?
1) Medical-grade silicone (most recommended)
Medical-grade silicone is the safest and most hygienic material for sex toys. It is non-porous, which prevents bacteria from infiltrating the material.
Pros:
- 100% body-safe
- Easy to clean and sterilize
- Durable and resistant
- Soft and pleasant texture
- Compatible with water-based lubricants
Cons:
- Higher price
- Do not use with silicone-based lubricants
2) Glass
Medical-grade glass offers a unique and luxurious experience. It also allows for temperature play (hot or cold water).
Pros:
- Hygienic and non-porous
- Can be heated or cooled
- Easy to clean
- Very durable
- Compatible with all lubricants
Cons:
- Fragile (risk of breakage)
- Rigid surface (no flexibility)
- High price
3) Metal (stainless steel)
Medical stainless steel is prized for its weight and firmness.
Pros:
- Pleasant weight for some
- Temperature play possible
- Very hygienic
- Unbreakable
- Compatible with all lubricants
Cons:
- Very hard surface
- High price
- Cold sensation initially
4) TPE/TPR (thermoplastics)
Softer and more affordable materials, but less recommended.
Pros:
- Affordable price
- Soft and realistic texture
Cons:
- Porous (retains bacteria)
- Limited lifespan
- May contain phthalates (to be avoided)
- Difficult to clean thoroughly
What size to choose?
For beginners
Insertable length: 10-13 cm
Diameter: 2.5-3.5 cm
Start small to get familiar with the sensation. The insertable length is more important than the total length.
Intermediate
Insertable length: 13-16 cm
Diameter: 3.5-4.5 cm
For those who already have experience and want more of a feeling of fullness.
Experienced
Insertable length: 16 cm and above
Diameter: 4.5 cm and above
For advanced users looking for intense stimulation.
💡 Tip: Measure with your fingers to get an idea of your comfort zone. The vaginal length is about 10-12 cm on average, but it can adapt.
The different types
1) Classic dildo (non-vibrating)
The basic model, simple and effective, without a motor or batteries.
Ideal for:
- Beginners
- Those who prefer natural sensations
- Limited budget
2) Vibrating dildo
Combines penetration with vibrations for extra stimulation.
Ideal for:
- Dual stimulation
- More intensity
- Varying pleasure
Points of attention:
- Requires batteries or is rechargeable
- More expensive than a classic model
- Check water resistance if using underwater
3) Suction cup dildo
Has a suction cup base to attach it to a smooth surface.
Ideal for:
- Hands-free play
- Exploring different positions
- More active stimulation
4) Double-ended dildo
Designed for two people or for double penetration.
Ideal for:
- Couples
- Simultaneous vaginal and anal stimulation
5) Realistic dildo
Reproduces the appearance of a penis with anatomical details.
Ideal for:
- Those who prefer a realistic look
- Specific fantasies
6) Curved / G-Spot dildo
Curved shape specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot.
Ideal for:
- Targeted G-spot stimulation
- More intense orgasms
How to maintain your dildo?
Cleaning after each use
For silicone, glass, and metal:
- Wash with warm water and mild soap (neutral pH)
- Rinse well
- Dry with a clean towel or air dry
- To sterilize: boiling water for 3-5 minutes (silicone only)
For TPE/TPR:
- Wash thoroughly with soap and water
- Use a special sex toy cleaner if possible
- Dry well
Storage
- Store in a clean and dry place
- Use a fabric pouch (often provided)
- Do not store silicone sex toys touching each other (they can react)
- Avoid direct sunlight
Lubrication
- With silicone: Use ONLY water-based lubricants
- With glass/metal: All types of lubricants compatible
- Always use a lubricant for more comfort and safety
Frequently Asked Questions
Can you use a dildo without lubricant?
No, it is highly recommended to use a lubricant to avoid irritation and improve comfort.
What is the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?
A dildo has no vibrating function. A vibrator has an integrated motor.
How long does a quality dildo last?
With proper maintenance, a silicone dildo can last for several years. Glass and metal are virtually indestructible.
Can you use a dildo for anal stimulation?
Yes, but it MUST have a flared base to prevent it from getting stuck. Use sex toys specifically designed for anal play.
How do I know if my dildo is safe?
Check that it is certified "body-safe," made of medical-grade silicone, and avoid porous materials or those containing phthalates.
