How to choose your fantasy dildo?

Comment choisir son gode fantasy ?

The complete guide to finding your ideal imaginary companion

The world of fantasy sex toys has experienced a real boom in recent years. Scaly dragons, mythological creatures, aliens with surprising shapes, dreamlike tentacles, or spiral unicorn horns… these erotic accessories draw inspiration from the worlds of fantasy and science fiction to offer sensory experiences that classic models cannot provide. But with an increasingly rich range of products, how do you find your way around? Here are the essential criteria to make the right choice.

1. Define your desires and your level of experience

First and foremost, be honest with yourself about your level of experience and the type of stimulation you are looking for.

For beginners, it is advisable to start with tapered, progressive models, where the diameter increases gently from the tip to the base. The unicorn dildo, for example, is an excellent entry point: its spiral horn offers light, enveloping stimulation, and its structure allows for controlled insertion at your own pace. The goal is to discover these sensual universes gently, without discomfort.

For intermediate or experienced users, larger models — such as dragon dildos with a wide diameter or mythological creatures with pronounced reliefs — will provide the intense stimulation and extraordinary sensations they seek.

2. Choose your creature: each universe has its own specificities

Choosing a "creature" is also a matter of aesthetic taste, fantasy, and the sensations you are looking for.

The dragon dildo is arguably the gold standard of the genre. Imposing and majestic, it stands out for its finely reproduced scales and ridges, which transform every movement into a unique tactile experience. Its sinuous curves allow for varied stimulation depending on the angle of use. Available in several colors — flamboyant red, emerald green, glacier blue — it is as much a collector's item as an accessory for pleasure.

The mythological creature dildo is for those who want to explore more abstract shapes, inspired by the richness of legends and the bestiary of fantasy. Each model is unique: some feature suction cups, others have tight spirals or asymmetrical reliefs. This is the ideal choice for those who love surprise and variety in their sensations.

The alien dildo is perfect for science fiction fans. Its decidedly non-human shapes — unusual curves, smooth or grainy textures, extraterrestrial colors — allow you to give free rein to your most cosmic fantasies. Some models have an ejaculating function to take the experience even further.

The tentacle dildo occupies a category of its own. Inspired by creatures of the deep, it relies on a texture that is in constant variation: the tentacles create successive waves of stimulation, which are particularly appreciated for both external and internal use. Its organic and supple appearance makes it a very particular sensory choice.

The horse dildo is a great classic of animal-themed sex toys, often acclaimed for its powerful and recognizable shape. Inspired by equine anatomy, it is distinguished by a flared base, a slightly ribbed texture, and a natural curve that promotes stimulation of the most sensitive areas. Between the power of its shape and its appearance, which is both familiar and fantastical, it appeals to fans of fantasy worlds as much as those drawn to animal aesthetics. A must-have model for those who wish to live an intense experience with a toy that has a design that is both realistic and out of the ordinary.

3. Technical characteristics not to be overlooked

Size and diameter

This is arguably the most important criterion. Fantasy dildos tend to be larger than classic realistic models. Always check the usable length (not the total length) and the diameter at different points of the toy. If you are a beginner, choose a model with a diameter that stays under 3.5 cm.

Material

Always prioritize non-porous, phthalate-free, and body-safe certified materials:

  • Platinum silicone is the absolute standard: soft, flexible, easy to clean, and compatible with sterilization. It is slightly matte and retains body heat well.
  • PolyFlex or medical-grade resins generally offer slightly higher rigidity, which is ideal for more pronounced stimulation.
  • Avoid cheap materials like PVC or non-certified TPR: they can contain irritating substances and are porous (making them impossible to disinfect properly).

Shape and reliefs

The reliefs — scales, spirals, suction cups, prominent veins — are not just aesthetic. They directly determine the type of stimulation: a highly ribbed texture will be more intense, while a smoother surface offers a more slippery and continuous experience. Choose according to your sensitivity.

Security base

If you are planning anal use, make sure the dildo is equipped with a flared base or a solid suction cup. This is an absolute safety rule, regardless of the size of the toy.

4. Bonus features to consider

  • Suction cup: very practical for solo use, it allows the dildo to be attached to a flat surface, freeing up your hands.
  • Ejaculating function: present on some alien models in particular, it allows you to inject a liquid (lubricant or simulating fluid) for maximum sensory immersion.
  • Compatibility with harnesses: some models are designed to be worn, which opens up additional possibilities for play as a couple.

5. Maintenance: a criterion that is often underestimated

Because of its many reliefs and nooks, a fantasy dildo requires thorough cleaning after each use. Prefer sterilizable materials (non-vibrating platinum silicone) that can be put in boiling water or the dishwasher. For models with internal mechanisms (ejaculator, etc.), systematically clean the internal channels with a syringe and warm soapy water.

Store your dildo in a fabric pouch or an individual box, away from dust and other toys (some silicones can react with each other upon prolonged contact).

6. Choosing alone or as a couple?

Fantasy dildos lend themselves very well to couples' play, especially in the context of role-playing or erotic scenarios. In this case, think together about the universes that excite you, and opt for a model that will nurture your common scenarios. The process of choosing together can itself be an intimate and playful experience.

When used solo, they offer total freedom to explore your fantasies, without judgment or constraint.

In summary: the 5 questions to ask yourself before buying

  1. What is my experience level? → Beginner: opt for a tapered model of modest size. Experienced: you can aim for more generous sizes with pronounced reliefs.
  2. What universe excites me? → Medieval fantasy (dragon, unicorn), mythology, sci-fi (alien), or Lovecraftian horror (tentacle)?
  3. What material? → Always certified platinum silicone or an equivalent body-safe material.
  4. What usage? → Vaginal, anal (flared base mandatory), as a couple, with a harness?
  5. What features? → Suction cup, ejaculator, rigidity, size?

Rédigé par

Emma

À 32 ans, je suis convaincue que le plaisir ne connaît ni âge, ni genre, ni mode emploi universel. Formée en sexologie positive, je me suis spécialisée dans les pratiques BDSM, le pegging et la sexualité à toutes les étapes de la vie. Grande lectrice et militante body positive, j'écris ici pour démystifier les tabous et guider chacun·e vers ce qui lui ressemble vraiment.

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