Anal Sex Toys

How do anal sex toys work?

The anus contains two distinct sphincters: the external sphincter (voluntary musculature) and the internal sphincter (involuntary smooth musculature). This area is richly innervated but does not produce any natural lubrication, hence the absolute necessity of a lubricant for every use. The anal canal measures approximately 3 to 4 cm before the recto-anal junction, and then the rectum continues for another 12 to 15 cm.

Any anal sex toy must have a flared base wider than the body of the toy to prevent internal migration (a well-known but avoidable surgical emergency). Favor medical-grade silicone or borosilicate glass, and always pair it with a water-based or silicone-based lubricant. To return to genital stimulation, take a look at our clitoral stimulators or penile vibrators, depending on your anatomy.

The different types of anal sex toys

• Anal plugs: conical shape with a flared base, ranging from beginner 7 cm models to expert XL models, meant to be kept in place during play.
• Graduated dilators: 3-size kits (S/M/L) for progressing over several sessions, made of silicone or glass crystal.
• Strap-on dildos: harness + dildo for pegging or couples' play, including beginner models and universal harnesses.
• Prostate massagers: 90° anatomical curve, sometimes featuring electrostimulation (ElectraStim) or remote-controlled vibration.

How to choose the right anal sex toy

• Based on your experience: 7-9 cm in length and 25 mm in diameter to start, up to 15+ cm for experienced practices.
• Based on maximum diameter: 25 mm (XS), 30 mm (S), 35-40 mm (M), 45+ mm (L)—never skip a step.
• Based on the base: always flared, T-shaped for long models (absolute safety).
• Based on material: silicone (flexibility), glass (rigidity and thermal properties), metal (weight), TPE is forbidden for anal use (porous).
• Based on motorization: passive for beginners, vibrating for prostate stimulation, remote-controlled for couples' play.