Beefy
The Beffy dental dam is that sexual health accessory that’s all too easily forgotten, yet it’s a real game-changer for stress-free oral sex.
How does a dental dam work?
A dental dam is a thin, flexible membrane, typically made of latex, placed flat over the vulva or anal area before cunnilingus or anilingus. It creates a physical barrier between both partners' mucous membranes, limiting direct contact with bodily fluids. In practical terms, STIs like herpes, chlamydia, or gonorrhea can be transmitted orally: according to Santé Publique France, STI testing increased by 30% between 2017 and 2022, a sign that awareness is growing, but that protected practices still need to be encouraged.
As for usage, it’s straightforward: unfold or lay out the dam, hold it in place with both hands, and ensure it doesn’t slip during the act. Each dam is for single use; do not turn it over, and do not use the same side twice. For added comfort, it is perfectly fine to add a few drops of lubricant between the dam and the skin.
The different types of dental dams
- Classic latex dam: the gold standard, thin and resistant, compatible with most oral practices; be mindful if you have a latex allergy.
- Polyurethane dam: ideal if you have a latex allergy, it offers a more skin-like feel and remains compatible with all types of lubricants.
- Flavored dam: designed to make the experience more enjoyable with fruity or sweet scents, while maintaining its protective function.
- DIY cut latex square: a quick fix made by cutting a non-lubricated condom lengthwise; useful, but less consistent than a purpose-made dam.
How to choose the right dental dam
- Material: check if you or your partner have a latex allergy; if so, always opt for a polyurethane version.
- Thickness: the thinner the membrane, the better the sensation; look for dams between 0.05 and 0.08 mm for optimal comfort.
- Size: a standard dam measures approximately 15 x 15 cm, which is sufficient for full coverage; check the dimensions before buying.
- Pack size: the Beffy 2-pack is practical for having immediate backup protection without running out at the wrong moment.
- Storage: keep dams away from heat and direct light to preserve the integrity of the material until the indicated expiration date.